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Soft Life, Hard Conversations: How to Talk About Expectations Before It’s Too Late

Intro We love romance, aesthetics and “soft life” moments – brunch dates, cute selfies, matching outfits. But behind every healthy relationship are a few hard conversations that many couples avoid until things explode. Talking about expectations early doesn’t “spoil the vibe.” It protects your heart and your time. Here are key conversations every Naija & […]

Long-Distance Love: Making Naija & Diaspora Relationships Work

Intro One person is in Lagos, the other is in London. Or maybe one is in Abuja and the other in Toronto. Time zones, network wahala and different lifestyles can make long-distance love feel impossible. But many Naija & diaspora couples are making it work – with creativity, effort and plenty of data. Here’s how […]

Is This Love or Just Vibes? How to Spot Real Intentions Early

In the era of DMs, soft life and “hey stranger” messages, it can be hard to tell who is serious and who just wants gist when they’re bored. Many people in Naija and the diaspora are tired of situationships that never turn into anything real. So how do you know if someone is genuinely interested […]

Money in a Relationship and its Effect on Romantic Dynamics

Money is never just money in a relationship.It’s security, power, gratitude, fear, pride, childhood wounds, and future dreams all rolled into one bank account. That’s why couples can argue more about ₦5,000 / £20 than about cheating – because the argument isn’t about the amount, it’s about what the money means. In this post, we’ll […]
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