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Find real-life stories, dating tips and honest conversations for Nigerians in Naija, the UK, US and Canada – all from the KaWink community and friends of Naija culture.

5 ways to maintain a healthy relationship

Getting into a relationship is one thing. Staying in a healthy one? That’s the real work.Whether you’re dating in Lagos traffic or juggling time zones between London and Houston, these five habits can keep your connection strong. 1. Keep talking – even when it’s awkward Healthy couples don’t avoid tough conversations; they learn how to […]

Why you’re still single, according to dating professionals

Why you’re still single, according to dating professionals First, let’s clear something up:Being single is not a disease. You’re not “behind in life” because you don’t have a partner right now. But if you do want a relationship and it feels like nothing is working – matches fade, talking stages die, situationships drag on – […]

When should you follow up for that second date?

You had a good time. The conversation flowed, they smelled nice, and the goodbye moment was… interesting.Now you’re back home staring at your phone, asking the classic question: “When is the right time to follow up for a second date?” Too soon and you might look desperate.Too late and you risk losing momentum. Let’s break […]

How to Stop Being Jealous When It’s Affecting Your Relationship

A little jealousy is normal.We’re human, we care, and we don’t want to lose the person we love. But when jealousy turns into constant phone-checking, arguments, or anxiety every time your partner leaves the house, it stops being “cute” and starts damaging the relationship. If you’ve noticed jealousy creeping into your calls, texts or dates […]

Know who they really are with our new Selfie Verification feature 

Online dating can be sweet… until you realise the person you’ve been chatting with doesn’t look anything like their photos.Old pictures, stolen pictures, heavy filters, or full-on catfish – it happens more than we like to admit. That’s why we’re introducing Selfie Verification on KaWink – so you can feel more confident that the person […]

Soft Life, Hard Conversations: How to Talk About Expectations Before It’s Too Late

Intro We love romance, aesthetics and “soft life” moments – brunch dates, cute selfies, matching outfits. But behind every healthy relationship are a few hard conversations that many couples avoid until things explode. Talking about expectations early doesn’t “spoil the vibe.” It protects your heart and your time. Here are key conversations every Naija & […]

Long-Distance Love: Making Naija & Diaspora Relationships Work

Intro One person is in Lagos, the other is in London. Or maybe one is in Abuja and the other in Toronto. Time zones, network wahala and different lifestyles can make long-distance love feel impossible. But many Naija & diaspora couples are making it work – with creativity, effort and plenty of data. Here’s how […]
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